The New Queer Cruising: A Focus on Wine and Food

Image: PHOTO: Adam Martindale (photo courtesy by Adam Martindale)
Image: PHOTO: Adam Martindale (photo courtesy by Adam Martindale)
Paul Heney
by Paul Heney
Last updated: 12:00 AM ET, Thu March 29, 2018

Adam Martindale started in the hospitality industry in England at the age 17, when he attended hotel & restaurant management college. He says he always wanted to work on cruise ships and applied to every cruise line possible. But Martindale received rejection letters from them all.

Two years later, in 1985, he was working in London as a management trainee when Carnival Cruises came to England to recruit for their Food and Beverage Management Training Program. Martindale interviewed and was hired. Ten years later, he had worked on 10 of their ships-four of which he brought out from the shipyard as Food and Beverage Director.

Martindale also worked for Norwegian Cruise Lines for four years and Oceania/Regent Cruise Lines for two years-all as Food & Beverage Director-as well as in hotels and resorts with Hilton, Loews and Bacara Resort in Santa Barbara.

Today, he focuses on developing luxury cruise itineraries focusing on food and wine. We spoke with him about the cruise market for queer travelers-where it's been and where he sees it evolving.

TP: Cruises for gay men have long been a staple of the LGBTQ travel scene. But how are they different today compared to a generation ago?

AM: I can definitely speak from firsthand experience, as I started working onboard cruise ships in 1985. It was extremely rare, if at all, that you saw gay couples on cruises from 1985 to 1995 when I worked onboard Carnival ships.

I went back to work for Norwegian Cruise Lines in 2005 and did start to notice some gay couples onboard at that time. I think over time, gay couples and/or the LGBTQ community, in general, have become much more comfortable going on "straight" cruises. Now, they don't have the feeling that they are "different" or unable to mix easily with everyone else onboard. LGBTQ groups on larger cruise ships have definitely gained popularity.

TP: Tell me about Meet Me On Board. How did you get involved with them? How did the idea of their first gay cruise come to fruition, and what will be special about it?

AM: I was originally one of their featured travel agents on their website. I started to see referrals coming to me and the conversation started about how we could partner together more and possibly arrange a group cruise.

After meeting Mark & Dale, owners of Meet Me On Board, in Phoenix, we spent some time brainstorming ideas and they decided to partner with me as the sole travel professional, which I was very happy about.

We chose the Bliss, as it is the first new ship to be on the West Coast for quite some time and put the group cruise together. The group cruise will be a smaller, more intimate group of around 40 people. We wanted this in the beginning. We have incorporated a private beach party with an open bar in Puerto Vallarta at Mantamar Beach Club, to be included in the group pricing.

TP: Can you talk a bit about the typical passengers on board?

AM: I would say the mix is 80 percent couples and 20 percent singles. The Norwegian Bliss appeals to the mass market and the Oceania Riviera will appeal to the more upscale traveler, although it is a great value as the price includes airfare to and from Europe. The clientele is mixed, many of them tired of the party cruises. Anyone looking to have fun with a mixed LGBTQ crowd, seeking unique experiences should consider joining our cruises. Look for more in 2019.


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Paul Heney

Paul Heney

Paul J. Heney is a lifelong writer and avid world traveler. He's served as Editorial Director for several hospitality magazines, including Luxury Hotelier, Hotel Design, and Hotel & Motel Management. He has written extensively about family travel, green issues, cruises, and LGBT travel issues. He has won multiple Azbee awards for writing from the American Society of Business Publication Editors and served as National President of the association from 1999-2003. He lives in suburban Cleveland with his partner and two sons. Follow him on Twitter at @paulheney or Instagram at @paulheney.

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