Flight Attendant Announcement Sparks Social Media Debate Over Arm Rests

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Image: Empty passenger airplane seats in cabin. (Photo Credit: sattapapan tratong / Adobe Stock)
Rich Thomaselli
by Rich Thomaselli
Last updated: 1:15 PM ET, Mon April 8, 2024

A United Airlines flight attendant got out in front of the argument over arm rests before the plane even took off.

In turn, the announcement has sparked a social media debate over the etiquette involved with arm rests. The announcement included a warning that disputes would not be tolerated.

Arguments among passengers over who has the right to the arm rest happen all the time, but rarely has there been such a proclamation from the cabin crew.

Until now.

A passenger on the plane wrote on Reddit: “This was a first for me on my current flight. FA [flight attendant] made an announcement right after boarding to clarify who gets to use which armrest on the flight. To my surprise, he was very emphatic that no person gets two armrests. He explained every person is supposed to use the armrest on their right (and the left for the other side) (of the plane) and keep the armrest on the aisle clear for carts and people walking down the plane. He emphatically stated that no armrest drama would be tolerated.”

His announcement was not an official United Airlines policy.

There was also no mention of everybody just getting along or passengers keeping their hands folded in their laps and singing Kumbaya.

“Feeling sorry for all the folks in middle seats on this flight, although mentioned to my seatmate she was welcome to both armrests. Ever hear anything like this before?” the passenger wrote.

Some Reddit users agreed that the flight attendant’s rules were “wrong” and another wrote: “That’s a “no” for me. I’m an aisle seater, and that aisle armrest is mine.”

Call it a case of territorial disputes at their finest.

“I always assumed the middle seat got both armrests because let’s be honest, the middle seat SUCKS. I always felt like it was the least I could do for their troubles,” added another.


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